I know WHY you're still SINGLE, Girl
I usually like to create posts about reality and what's going on in the real world, well this topic is one of the most common real time problems women face. Being Single.
Most women these days have made themselves powerhouses in every way possible but there are also some women who are either successful or just starting up who are still single. There is no exact formula in snagging a boyfriend or a husband but there is a certain attitude that you have to have in handling people in order to know how to handle potential more-than-friends type of people.
Here are Values you might lack in life and that is why you're still Single Right now.
1. Be Courteous
Watch your words, it will reflect who you are. We all want politeness from people so be polite as well. Do not assume that you are better than anyone else. One example of this is when someone asks you a question, answer them accordingly and do not assume that they know what you are talking about right away, that's the point of asking questions: to know more.
LOVE METER: When you speak in a polite and respectful way, guys will think you're easy to get along with. Of course guys want someone who they can easily talk to. Those romantic comedy movies you see where a the-more-you-hate-the-more-you-love relationship exists do not happen oftentimes in real life, so don't cling to that hope. Every other person whether a guy or a girl would always prefer their partner to be someone they could easily relate to, someone who they won't be intimidated with. Being single is great but having someone cheering on you is awesome!
2. Be Humble
Yes, you're the super bombshell who wears high heels and has the perfect smile and the awesome brain for problem solving but you can't solve this one simple problem you have, your overconfidence. Don't get me wrong, confidence is key in developing productive communication but when used more than what is required of it then problems start to arise. Don't be too over confident when handling people and don't perceive them to be dumb just because they don't understand at first what you are talking about. Be humble in a way that you try to make the other person understand and stoop down a bit to their level so there is proper communication, besides you both have the same common goal so be the better person. Don't shove your knowledge on people's mouths too! Be approachable in saying something when giving instructions.
LOVE METER: Guys love someone who isn't boastful of their accomplishments and someone who knows how to be a comrade to others. It's one of the basic things aspects guys look for in a girl, someone who they know won't bring them down because they only have achieved this much. A single girl would keep on saying that she doesn't need a man in her life but deep inside they want that one man holding her hand as she succeeds.
3. Be Forgiving
Okay, this here doesn't mean you should start forgiving every mistake done to you but there is always room for improvement (in life or in love life). The basic thing about this one here is to improve what needs to be improved and with others that come your way, give chance and forgive their shortcomings. God forgave us so why can't we right? Being forgiving is a bit cryptic so a simple tip for this is to choose the less evil thing to be forgiven as a first step. Just forgive those who do not understand or respect you and kill them with kindness.
LOVE METER: A bonus for a guy is someone who knows how to be forgiving of others who do not come in par with her brilliance. If a forgiving single girl is a plus to any man who's looking for someone to be part of his life, because there are times when guys act or think dumb so they need someone to smack them in the head and hug them all at one.
Most women these days have made themselves powerhouses in every way possible but there are also some women who are either successful or just starting up who are still single. There is no exact formula in snagging a boyfriend or a husband but there is a certain attitude that you have to have in handling people in order to know how to handle potential more-than-friends type of people.
Here are Values you might lack in life and that is why you're still Single Right now.
1. Be Courteous
Watch your words, it will reflect who you are. We all want politeness from people so be polite as well. Do not assume that you are better than anyone else. One example of this is when someone asks you a question, answer them accordingly and do not assume that they know what you are talking about right away, that's the point of asking questions: to know more.
LOVE METER: When you speak in a polite and respectful way, guys will think you're easy to get along with. Of course guys want someone who they can easily talk to. Those romantic comedy movies you see where a the-more-you-hate-the-more-you-love relationship exists do not happen oftentimes in real life, so don't cling to that hope. Every other person whether a guy or a girl would always prefer their partner to be someone they could easily relate to, someone who they won't be intimidated with. Being single is great but having someone cheering on you is awesome!
2. Be Humble
Yes, you're the super bombshell who wears high heels and has the perfect smile and the awesome brain for problem solving but you can't solve this one simple problem you have, your overconfidence. Don't get me wrong, confidence is key in developing productive communication but when used more than what is required of it then problems start to arise. Don't be too over confident when handling people and don't perceive them to be dumb just because they don't understand at first what you are talking about. Be humble in a way that you try to make the other person understand and stoop down a bit to their level so there is proper communication, besides you both have the same common goal so be the better person. Don't shove your knowledge on people's mouths too! Be approachable in saying something when giving instructions.
LOVE METER: Guys love someone who isn't boastful of their accomplishments and someone who knows how to be a comrade to others. It's one of the basic things aspects guys look for in a girl, someone who they know won't bring them down because they only have achieved this much. A single girl would keep on saying that she doesn't need a man in her life but deep inside they want that one man holding her hand as she succeeds.
3. Be Forgiving
Okay, this here doesn't mean you should start forgiving every mistake done to you but there is always room for improvement (in life or in love life). The basic thing about this one here is to improve what needs to be improved and with others that come your way, give chance and forgive their shortcomings. God forgave us so why can't we right? Being forgiving is a bit cryptic so a simple tip for this is to choose the less evil thing to be forgiven as a first step. Just forgive those who do not understand or respect you and kill them with kindness.
LOVE METER: A bonus for a guy is someone who knows how to be forgiving of others who do not come in par with her brilliance. If a forgiving single girl is a plus to any man who's looking for someone to be part of his life, because there are times when guys act or think dumb so they need someone to smack them in the head and hug them all at one.
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